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Failure, much more than success, helps us grow professionally and personally.<\/strong> And yet, it’s so hard to account for our failures. We prefer to think of ourselves as competent, effective people (see <\/i>cognitive dissonance<\/a>). And it’s embarrassing to share those failings because it’s counter to social norms.<\/p>\n However, a frank appreciation of one’s shortcomings is necessary for learning and to prevent their re-occurrence. I also think sharing one’s failures could begin to normalize the practice and make people more comfortable with their own bloopers.<\/strong> In a world where one’s carefully curated, high-gloss persona on social media means so much (too much?<\/a>),<\/b> this is also my little protest and inoculation against those pressures.<\/p>\n Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts. \u2013 Winston Churchill<\/p><\/blockquote>\n So, I made an effort to list all the ways in which I sucked this year and what I learned. My criterion for inclusion here: am I mortified to share them publicly? <\/strong> Here they are (deep breath):<\/p>\n